(anyone who has ever fallen in love and had planets with that person in 12th composite will know..). I had to spend years unlearning what love is to me and settle with how individuals differ in what we value in a relationship. The Composite Chart: Relationship Astrology Doing stuff without thinking clearly. Weve known each other for a decade??? The empty space you decribe has me under pressure most days. Our composite mars is in cancer in the 12 house. The Pluto struggle with the ego and power will engage with the partners planetsin a positive way, the partner can become a guide. We both experienced he physically (I think) something weird when i was very close to him and I saw something mind boggling in the night when Venus turned retrograde this year. This year in April we were introduced to each other by our mates. For him, its TOO many of his own issues. Sorry, I cant respond to lists of aspects. People who fight for justice for others often have Juno prominent in the chart. Moon and Mars both Trine Uranus. The Composite 12th House in Astrology Me and my sweet friend have Sun, Venus and Mercury in Cancer in the 12th, trine Neptune in Scorpio in the 5th, sextile Moon in Taurus in the 10th, but square Saturn in Virgo in the 3rd. My 12 is in Leo, along with my Sun, Mercury, Mars and Pluto. venus+mars, etc. As a 12th house person, I finally realized I enjoy the confusion. What do you think? Does that sound like enough glue to counter the 12th house effects? When transit Neptune is in the composite 12th house, you can explore your spiritual connection, and want to make sure that youre intuitively moving in the same direction. When Saturn is conjunct the North Node it can be particularly ruthless in pursuing its goals. A Venus/Mars conjunction in Taurus can be a beautiful thing. He is my best friend but marriage to him has been so disappointing because theres not much difference between now and when I was single. Thrown/compelled into a private relationship that feels confusing and unavoidable at the same time. Thanks so much Dawn. The 12th house is called the house of ends. They seem bonded before a word is spoken. Its a bit like getting knocked off your feet by a powerful waveyou and your partner are going to have to swim in the tide for a while, and deal with whatever watery beasties swim your way. so beautiful and so healing especially the last paragraph. By the way, in progressions, you very clearly see the influence of both planets at work. Dawn, I just found this and it seems to hold some answers about what is going wrong with my marriage of 8 years. It is often said about this house that everyone else see's it before you do. They are tenacious and will not give up until they achieve their goals. The 12th house is always complex and is different in how it manifests depending on the contacts involved. The love you have for one another may be secret or private, and/or you are called upon to take a leap of faith in order to be with one another.
