Picking up on this the following day or so I asked her if we were Ok and if she was withdrawing and she stated Yes, I am withdrawing, Ive also been busy. Saying what was I thinking to have another child. Because I am committed and focused on me now, and thats how all men should be. You are your own pedestal so you deserve to be admired and treated well as well. AP Team, Ive been dating the love of my life for 3.5 years and she just told me that she was considering that we break up, then decided she just needed space to think about the situation because we are so involved and love each other and our families do too. The only thing that I would say differently is to stop doubting your friendship and relationship with her. (am so tempted to buy her Xmas gift and ask for an outing to see a movie). It was really nice. Hi No full on convo. I try to have a conversation with her and shes on her phone reading articles. I have these negative thoughts about her not wanting to be with me anymore, or there being someone else in the picture but I know neither of these are true remembering the great times weve had and the emotions weve shared; also Im almost positive there isnt someone else in the picture, because she MADE time for me, shes very busy and driven and she decided that I could be in her life. she told me she wanna leave me please I beg you leave me alone. Ill continue to reflect on this counsel. Change your life and master your attraction. But it takes more than that. If you need more coaching through this then Id encourage you to book a session. she told me before i left that she knows that we havent face timed for a while and she wanted to that night. Reach Attached by Amir Levine and do 30 days no contact. This would be dumb for sure, as it would give her more to think about and probably add more stress to her life than there already is. If you have shown her that you can be a good provider, a kind listener, and a partner who lovingly wants to support her in her life, and she doesnt recognize how good you would be for her in her life, then shes too bloody stupid to be wasting your time with. It could just mean that shes feeling overwhelmed and needs some space. Best. A woman does not say you cloud my mind that I cant focus for no reason. It will be hard but during this time I believe the both of you will benefit from just giving eachother some time to think. I still care about her though. Things will be the way they are meant to be. Thank you in advance! I tried to talked it over, Hi Dyl, Heres the link to where you can do that. I think it could be very beneficial. I think she was overwhelmed with the weight and responsibilities of being together with someone with depression she asked for space. In order to figure out the sweet spot between constantly texting her and completely leaving her alone, I would recommend speaking to one of our coaches who are better equipped to give you solid advice. if ull lie about dumb things Noone cares about or going out with a male friend and I trusted u before until u forgot on the 3rd to mention he was going Im done small lies hide big ones Id rather be single and hang with my kids.
